Earth to Bobby Bonds Jr.
Posted: Wednesday, May 16, 2007 12:01 PM
If I’m Barry Bonds’ brother, I’m probably going to defend him. That’s how it is with family. So I’m not surprised that his brother, Bobby Bonds Jr., is ticked at Hank Aaron for boycotting the assault on his home-run record, as reported by The Star-Ledger of Newark, N.J.
But what I don’t understand is Bobby’s belief that the reason Aaron has to be present with Barry hits 756 is because he’s African-American.
“Being a black man going through what he went through in the past and not supporting my brother, it kind of makes me look at him like, ‘Are you serious, brother? Are you serious?’ ” he told the newspaper.
Let me ask the same question: “Are you serious, Bobby? Are you serious?”
Where is it written that you have to support everyone of the same ethnic origin as you? Solidarity is one thing, but if you think someone’s cheating – as Aaron believes of Barry Bonds – why do you have to support him? Because your ancestors all came from Africa?
You can take that one to really absurd lengths. Like saying that all Russians should defend Stalin or all Serbians have to stand behind Slobodan Milosovic or all white people have to rally around Paris Hilton.
On the one hand, I have to give credit to the African-American community for sticking together. On the other, I could – if I didn’t want to be called impertinent – ask why it can’t show such admirable purpose and unity on such issues as the language and attitudes in hip-hop music.
There, I said it, but let me add that it’s not a legitimate question. When any community acts as one, it’s in response to an outside threat, not an internal one. It’s no different than a family whose members fight among themselves like cats and dogs but turn into a fortress when someone from outside attacks any family member – including weird Uncle Clem.
This is where Bobby Bonds has it wrong. The only reason that Aaron might be tempted to stand by Barry is if he were under attack because he’s black. An attack on one is an attack on all. There’s no question that some people don’t like Bonds for that reason. But most people dislike him because he’s got the personality of a hemorrhoid. They don’t want him to break Aaron’s record because they think he cheated. End of discussion.
It’s an insult to Aaron to suggest that there’s some kinship between the two sluggers based on their ethnic heritage. Barry Bonds is being booed. Aaron was threatened with death.
We all know – or should know – what Aaron went through when he closed in on the record in 1973 and passed it in 1974. Aaron was a member of baseball’s first generation of black players, and the 27 years since Jackie Robinson and Larry Doby broke the color lines in the National and American Leagues had hardly defeated racism.
Aaron received hate mail filled with the usual racially charged language along with death threats. As they had when Roger Maris chased Babe Ruth’s single-season home-run record in 1961, the media questioned whether Aaron was worthy of breaking the Bambino’s sacred record.
Bonds was the darling of all until BALCO broke and his name started popping up in grand jury testimony. Had none of that happened, even with his cloudy disposition, most people would have cheered him on to the record.
Bobby says Barry told him he never took steroids, and Bobby believes his brother. I suppose I would, too, in the same circumstances. But he’s also got to at least understand where the animosity is coming from. It’s not about race, Bobby. It’s about cheating.