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Romo's words ring hollow

Posted: Friday, January 23, 2009 9:00 PM

Just when Cowboys fans thought things couldn’t get any worse, they learn that Tony Romo has decided to be a better leader next year.

 

“I'm definitely going to take a more active approach with that as we move forward from last year to this season,” he told the Dallas Morning News. “I'll be very excited to get back out there and be with the guys and figure out a way to improve and get better and do the things we need to do to win. Period."

 

In sports, unlike in gift-giving, it’s not the thought that counts; it’s the performance. Offseason declarations, whether pious or impious, don’t mean squat.

 

That’s why I would be worried if I were a fan. You don’t become a leader by saying you’re going to lead. People don’t follow you because you said you’re going to be worth following. You become a leader by the way you behave and the way you perform. And leadership isn’t a quality you can simply choose to have. You’ve either got it or you don’t.

 

Romo’s pronouncement came after former quarterback Troy Aikman went on Michael Irvin’s radio show and chided Romo for his attitude and actions. Aikman was particularly annoyed at Romo’s decision a year ago to go to a resort in Mexico with girlfriend Jessica Simpson the week before he and the Cowboys lost to the Giants in the playoffs.

 

Piled on top of that was a Dallas Morning News report that cited five team sources saying Romo was inconsistent in practice and that factored into the way he played. Offensive coordinator Jason Garrett also came in for criticism.

 

None of the criticism is surprising or out of bounds. Romo has not played well in December and in the playoffs. He’s inconsistent, and has seemed to get worse after signing a huge new contract rather than better. Great football teams start with great quarterbacks. The Cowboys are not a great football team.

 

"I promise you, this football team is going to be a good football team next year,” Romo told the newspaper.

 

This is like a politician promising that next year taxes are going to go down and the government is going to run like a well-oiled machine. It sounds good, but you’ll believe it when you see it.

 

It’s the same with the leadership talk. Don’t bother telling us you’re a leader. We’ll watch you and let you know when you can lay claim to that designation.

 

If Romo wants to lead, he needs to stop talking and start working harder than anyone else on the team. He needs to be with the team lifting weights – and I’d suggest he take a page from Phil Simms’ book and lift them with the offensive line. Those are the guys he really needs on his side.

 

He needs to be the first one to the practice complex and the last one out. He needs to call in his receivers during the offseason and work on patterns and timing. He needs to know the play book and the offensive philosophy better than the coaches.

 

And then he needs to perform. Don’t make the dumb mistakes. Don’t let yourself get into a situation where your star wide-out is feuding with your go-to tight end. Don’t act like a glamour boy.

 

Most of all, go out and win football games. Win them in September and win them in December. Be that guy who makes his teammates feel they can’t lose when the game’s on the line and the clock is winding down.

 

Like Al Davis says: Just win, baby.

 

But for pete’s sake, don’t talk about it. Don’t tell us you’re going to be a leader. Just go out and do it. That’s been one of the biggest problems with this franchise from the owner down: too much talk, too little action.

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romo is done, he will wallow in mediocrity, i laugh when i look at his cartonish face, that the folks in Dallas have bought into including the clueless fans.
Mike,
 Once again, you are so right!  When I first read of Tony Romo's "talk of trying to be a better leader", I felt this is a guy who is in fear of losing his job.  He, obviously, realizes he's been stinking it up in the leadership dept.  Otherwise, I believe he wouldn't find it necessary for such "talk".  
 I just love your columns.  I look forward to them every day.  I hope you are doing great.
 Jim Holo
I agree.......as a longtime Cowboy fan, it's time for Tony to stop talking and start winning. Three staight years of shockingly bad endings.  Focus Tony, focus.
Hey Celzic,

How do you know all this "what makes a leader" stuff?  From reading a boook?  From watching TV and sharing your feelings afterwards?  Please, give me some insight.

Why don't you call Romo up personnally and share your deep feelings with him?  Or does leadership in the journalism world mean merely sending a kite out to talk smack about established, elite athletes?  

I remember when this type of balogna was tossed around about Eli Manning.  Then he won, and suddenly he is a workhorse, leader, all that B.S.

Football is a game.  Games are not always predictable.  That's why they are called games.  Don't take it so serious.  Please go find a job where it takes leadership to survive.  Establish some credibility.  Then give Romo a call with your hard earned wisdom, and he might consider listening to you.

Sorry, Bud.  You write good stuff.  But sometimes I wonder if you go too far by sounding too wise.  

 
I would agree with that! The season is not that long when you are prepared. I remember whem the Cowboys were 1-15 they played hard for four quarters. No finger pointing they just worked harder to get better. This paid off with 3 superbowls in 4 years. I do believe they have the talent, but they have to be focused and mindful of what's at stake when the season starts. It's not about going through the motions. it's about setting goals and doing the right things at the start(training camp) and just practice how you play. (Practice,Practice, Practice)!
who wrote that piece of crap story
That says it all. Look at the top QB's-Brady, Payton Manning, even Chad Pennington. They all spend the time to do the job right. It's nice to be in the spotlight, But so many have wilted from the heat it produces.
So who's surprised?  Dallas is a dysfunctional team led by a dysfunctional owner who believes he knows more about football than those he hires.  Perhaps it's time to amend the popular NFL saying, coaches coach-players play by adding "owners own".
i agreeromo needs to stop talking and start doing ,he can be a great player  and the team will be great again, they need to work together and get new off playes , and become one team, there are to many i,s on it now
Shhhhhhh! Don't give it away.  Actually the Dallas Cry Boys are NOT America's team and I am amused when they just lose, bab(ies), lose!
Great point!  Aikman was right in the comments he made.  Romo got a fat contract, but he hasn't lived up to the hype.  He needs to be an example.  JErry needs to bring in someone to push him for the job and not some old has-been.  I am sure Jessica and the money are great, but how much will those things mean when you are riding the bench because of your poor play!
How many games as an NFL Quarterback have you played?  I am a Redskin.  I relish every victory over the Cowboys.  Only thing I dislike more is pesky reporters who have never really lived a day in an NFL's player's shoes dissin them.  What's more is that you are the one who asked him the question that lead to his answer you now critisize him for.  Romo says he's going to take a more active approach with "that".  The "that" he is talking about is the question you asked him.  This was a set up job. Why don't you do like Romo and report a "real" story instead of making one up that is not present?
Not only is Romo's lacking in leadership the problem with this football team -- although it certainly doesn't help to bring a group of football players together to form a cohesive unit -- there is also the problem of the Cowboys starting their season wrongly ... again.

They started last season with that circus "Hard Knocks" special, only to one-up it with the forthcoming ridiculous special being promoted by a wide receiver (Michael Irvin) that doesn't even play for them anymore!

This team hasn't done anything, and they're going to do something Dick Vermeil did what seems like a hundred years ago? Does anyone think, for even one second, that successful teams like the Steelers, Giants, Cards, Patriots or Ravens would consent to such a fiasco? I'll answer such rhetoric with a resounding NO!

It's entirely pointless to think that this group of individual Dallas Cowboys will never become a football TEAM like this ... let alone a successful one!

Jerry Jones, Michael Irvin and the anti-leader, Tony Romo, are so comical and misguided that it's just pathetic...
Unfortunately the record indicates this is right on. I would trade Romo now for a qb with real leadership skills. Since big bill likes to feel he can fleece Jerry offer him Romo for Chad Pennington Srraigt up!!
Wow. Well said. Being a leader isn't about what you say, it is about whay you do and how those around you perceive you. He can have a personal life and take care of business on the field as well. He needs to realize that he can only play the grandest of games for a short while, and every day counts.
Love the Cowboys! But until they get rid of Phillips we're screwed.
Well if the Cowboys didn't talk then 80% of sports writers would be out of a job... or covering rugby or something... But don't worry the other 20% would still have there "unnamed" sources... so it can still be all Cowboys all the time... "Yea"  so are we still having a Superbowl this year??
This just in: Terrell Owens has a Reality TV Show, yes I'm serious, debuting this summer. How will this news factor into the Cowboys offseason plans?

Read about it here...http://www.scandalist.com/2009-01-26/to-gets-vh1-reality-show/
Amen, brother! That flap jawin' that the 'Boys have been doing about how "We'll do this . . . and We'll do that!" is exactly why I haven't had respect for them since the days of Landry, Staubach, Hill and Lilly. Keep talkin' 'Boys, it just makes you look more and more foolish.
Mike Celzic,
What a well written commentary, regarding the Dallas Cowboys, and the radio interview, with Troy Aikman, which was very revealing and honest. Troy was so on-point. Unfortunately, the reality is, the Cowboys do not have that same quality of a quarterback and leader, within the organization, such as Troy. We keep dreaming about the team from the the old days. Thing is, it is only a dream.
Troy's former coach, Jimmy Johnson has explained it in the past, in no uncertain terms, on the Fox NFL pre-game shows, when asked about the Dallas Cowboys, and what has happened to the team.  Jimmy has been there, done that, and knows what he is talking about.  He has discussed the unaccountability of the players,the lack of discipline, the sloppiness of the players, and that they are not a team. Yet, year after year, it continues, with always the same end result. Everyone else seems to 'get it' but not the Dallas Cowboys organization, and no one else can do anything about it. And so it continues with Jones and his celebrity players - Romo, Owens,etc. Now you can count on them for one thing - they always seem to show up to have the camera on them at every media event, celebrity outing, or social event, throughout the year.  They seem to be really good at that. Yet, they continue to be well over paid, with an ego to match. The sad part is the rest of the players that have to suffer because of them - the quiet ones, that truly respect the game and do their job each and every day, and the great fans that have supported them each and every day - the unspoken heroes. I feel for them.
Thank you.
HMMMM!  Wonder what Jerry and TO have to say about that.
unfortunely until mr jones (the owner) stops trying to manage, coach and draft players a great team is destin to "mediocrity".
I'm Dennis Norwood, a fan for forty-one years now, just stay healty and happy, work well together from the owner down to the last man hired, go on out there and play hard legal sticking football. That rookie #32 he can play, baby Dieon play him sub the guys,when one is tired play second man.Johnson Brad out of there play Spears more or just play man play like you want it You'll is beter than you now it man your;re great. now win your championship.


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